Working closely with expectant mothers as a Cranberry Township newborn photographer has given me a front-row seat to the emotions that surround labor. These final weeks before my own delivery have been filled with anticipation, emotion, and prayer. With my due date just weeks away, the thought of labor and contractions has me feeling anxious and I’ve been reflecting deeply on fear, trust, and surrender. It’d be so nice if I could just laugh this baby out!
On the fourth Sunday of Advent 2024, Fr. Mike Schmitz gave a homily that really stuck with me.
He talked about how he was afraid of the dark as a kid. He just wanted the night to be over and to not be alone anymore. We fear what we don’t know. How we can be prepared for what’s there if we don’t know what’s there? If we can’t see it, how can we be prepared for the unknown?
At the Annunciation, even in the face of possibly overwhelming fear, Mary's response was “Let it be done.” Ultimately, her response was trust. To trust Who she knows rather than fear what she didn't.
Fear becomes fiat.
This past Sunday, our priest, Fr. Chris, started the Surrender Novena with us. He said, if you say Day 1, why not do the whole thing? It was perfect timing—I’m going to finish the novena and work on asking Jesus to “take care of everything.” It's a spiritual battle to let go and let God. Praying for all expectant mothers that we can trust Jesus and surrender!
I'd love to hear what you (and your spouse) did/are doing to prepare for labor and delivery. I'd also very much appreciate your prayers! How can I pray for you?